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2020.10.22 22:09 i_livethedream Post op day 2 and doing just fine!

Hi there! 33(f) from Canada. I'm relaxing and loving life on day 2 of recovery from my bi-salp. I've been a lurker on this sub but never posted on reddit before. Here's some insight for everyone, and maybe some encouragement or reassurance. :)
-I don't like kids. I never wanted them.
-I have a severe phobia of pregnancy and birth.
-I had an abortion in 2017. No regrets, procedure went fine. I was sad for the day and then moved on.
-I met the love of my life on a dating site... he is also child free 39 (m). We have been together for 8 months and it has been amazing.
-I chose to get the bisalp because I simply wanted it for myself. I didn't even discuss 'him vs her' sterilization with my partner. I told him before our first date that I was getting it done and not to bother meeting me if he was a fence sitter. He was chill about it.
-I do not have full family support with my decision to get sterilized and it doesn't bother me.
-my doctor agreed within 5 minutes of the consult.
-my bisalp was smooth. Easy peasy. I'm a nurse so it was awkward because my co workers were there lol. I had minimal pain, no chest pain from the gas they use, minimal bleeding. I also had a hysterscopy D + C to check for abnormalities as my cycle is very wonky.
Life is great :) 100% happy.
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2020.10.22 16:55 treeshavefeelings2 COVID Wedding Recap/budget - 40 guests on 10.10.20

Location: South Georgia, USA
We received $10,000 from the groom's family and about $5,000 from my mother. Everything else was paid by us. We were very honored to have help as we were not expecting it. My now husband lost his job due to COVID in July so we definitely would not have been able to have this wedding without family helping us and downsizing our guestlist.
Original Budget: 30k
Final Budget: ~$27,207
Monetary Wedding Gifts: $3,700 (basically paid for our honeymoon)
We had planned a 150 person wedding at a historic outdoor venue for 10.10.20. When COVID hit we decided to uninvite almost everyone and did an intimate ceremony & reception at the same outdoor venue with just immediate family plus the bridal party. We paid for 50 (including vendor meals) but due to some last-minute no-shows, we had 45.
DISCLAIMER, before I am COVID shamed: We followed all state and local guidelines. Had both an outdoor ceremony and reception where seating was spaced out for social distancing and families were seated together. Our entire bridal party of 14 people tested negative before the wedding in order for us to safely take pictures together without masks. Masks and hand sanitizer were provided and masks were REQUIRED 100% of the time. I know this is not feasible depending on where some people are located but this worked for us and I am so proud of how we pulled off this safe event during these times.

Venue: I am not mentioning my venue name because I was extremely unhappy with the professionalism of the staff as well as their COVID policies during the pandemic. Basically, they completely refused to work with us in terms of date changes (they required an extra non-refundable deposit in order to reschedule) and I believe they were irresponsible by holding full 100+ person weddings in APRIL and MAY during peak COVID. They had no precautions at all, due to the fact that Georgia lifted restrictions pretty early on in the summer so the precautions we had at our event (such as all venue employees masked!?) were imposed at my insistence.
The venue was beautiful though, and they were pretty much all-inclusive with catering, drinks, florals, tables, chairs, and decor rentals included for a pretty good price. Plus the chef was amazing.
Final payment: $11,500
Dress: My dress was paid for by my mother as a wedding gift.
Wedding shoes: $160
Groom's Tux, shoes, etc. (purchased) : About $550
Rings: We ordered silicone rings online as we are fairly active and I almost never wear my fancy engagement ring out and about. We paid about $35 for both.
Bridal Party Gifts: We purchased jewelry for my bridal party on the day of and bow ties/suspenders for the groom's people. Overall we spent $357.
Bridesmaid Suite: The night before the wedding the bride people and I stayed at the venue site. I paid for this again as a little gift to my favorite people. $625
Rehearsal Dinner: We had dinner at a local women-owned venue called SASS! in Thomasville, GA. A great place, and wonderful hospitality. We had 28 people with meals and an open bar. $1700 including gratuity at the end of the night.
Florals: My aunt did bouquets/boutonnieres out of silk flowers as a wedding gift. The fresh florals for the remaining decor were included in the venue prices.
Guest Favors: Our "favors" to our guests were masks and little custom hand sanitizers purchased on etsy with our names and date. Unfortunately, I purchased the hand sanitizer before we downsized so I bought way more than necessary. $250
Guest Book: Our guest book was a polaroid photo station. I had a couple of bridesmaids take photos of my guests and they taped the photo in our book with a message. Guests were also encouraged to keep a photo as a favor as well! This was by far my FAVORITE expense. My husband and I loved looking through our guestbook over our honeymoon to remind us of the day. 2 Polaroid Instamax mini's, guestbook, tape, and film - $200
Cake: We had a small cutting cake and cupcakes. $150
Decor: Table signage and seating charts were done on hand-painted acrylic sheets with chalk markers. Almost all other decor was provided by the venue. $180
Exit: We did our exit with leaf confetti that we hand made and placed in newspaper cones. It was super cute, eco-friendly, and quite the bonding experiencing making 35 cones! Free
Invitations: I made our invitations on Shutterfly. This expense includes save-the-dates, cancellation postcards, and formal invitations. $800
DJ: Dj was okay, but definitely messed up my first dance and took song requests when I had asked her not to. $1000
Photographer: I LOVED my photographer. I would have paid double this. $2400
Videographer: After we canceled our larger wedding I found a last-minute videographer. I am so glad I did this! I have only received the teaser video but he did an amazing job capturing our ceremony and speeches. I really encourage anyone getting married to PLEASE consider getting a video. $2300
Wedding Hair & Makeup: I had this planned for me + the girls but after COVID hit we decided we felt more comfortable doing it all ourselves. Free
Honeymoon: We had planned a $7k trip to Greece that was obviously canceled. I was able to get about an 80% refund on all of our reservations and flights WITH trip insurance. So we were out $1,500.00 for that trip and spent about $3,500 on a trip to NC mountains for 6 days staying at a 4-star resort. Honeymoon + lost cancelations $5,000.
Final Recap: I loved my wedding day. It was small and personal and perfect. However, writing this recap makes me realize exactly how much money we spent throughout the year and a half planning this. As a couple, we owned our house and were living together, and before COVID we were pretty financially stable. Seeing the 27k up at the top really hurts, especially knowing that a lot of people cannot afford to drop that much money on a wedding. It also stings to know that a couple grand of that is wasted money that we will never get back because of covid deposits and other non refundable purchases that we didn't end up using.
I am glad we did not postpone and instead had a smaller wedding. Honestly, my advice to anyone getting married is to just elope. A lot of stress and crying and money went into this day, and while it was definitely worth it, I will never ever ever do it again.

I hope this helps someone out there. I know I read a lot of these recaps when I was planning. Feel free to ask me questions! And thank god this is over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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2020.10.22 00:00 millywyco MW Wyco Wednesday Inventory Update! First 20 Orders Get a Free Syringe or Calendar Raffle Entry! Restocked: GT, B+, PE6, Jedi Mind Fuck, White Teacher, Rusty Whyte, AA+, Blue Meanie NEW: Purple Mystic! Card Payments Back Up and Running on www.MillyWyco.com

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2020.10.20 22:39 assessment_bot [3 None] [October 11 2020] PIPER PA32, Atlanta/ GA

General Info

Category Data Category Data
Location: Atlanta, GA Accident Number: ERA21LA019
Date & Time: October 11, 2020, 08:25 Local Registration: N3595W
Aircraft: PIPER PA32 Injuries: 3 None
Flight Conducted Under:

Description

On October 11, 2020, about 0825 eastern daylight time, a Piper PA-32-260, N3595W, was substantially damaged when it was involved in an accident at Dekalb-Peachtree Airport (PDK), Atlanta, Georgia. The pilot and two passengers were not injured. The airplane was operated as a Title 14 Code of Federal Regulations Part 91 personal flight. According to the pilot, he landed at PDK on October 10, 2020, and requested the airplane fuel tanks be topped off. On the day of the accident, he performed a preflight inspection of the airplane with no anomalies noted and taxied the airplane to runway 21R. He "advanced the throttle to full power for takeoff and noted that the RPMs was producing full power, temps and pressures where in range and that airspeed was alive and increasing as normal." The pilot stated that after takeoff, the airplane continued to accelerate normally until about 150-200 ft above ground level when he noted an "abrupt reduction in engine noise." He attempted to land on the remaining runway; however, the airplane departed the runway and traveled about 200 ft into the grass. After the airplane came to rest, the pilot subsequently restarted the engine and taxied the airplane from the grass back onto the runway, where it was towed to the ramp. The airplane was retained for further examination.

Aircraft and OwneOperator Information

Category Data Category Data
Aircraft Make: PIPER Registration: N3595W
Model/Series: PA32 260 Aircraft Category: Airplane
Amateur Built: No Operator:
Operating Certificate(s) Held: None Operator Designator Code:

Meteorological Information and Flight Plan

Category Data Category Data
Conditions at Accident Site: VMC Condition of Light: Day
Observation Facility, Elevation: KPDK,1002 ft msl Observation Time: 07:53 Local
Distance from Accident Site: 0 Nautical Miles Temperature/Dew Point: 21°C /20°C
Lowest Cloud Condition: Few / 1000 ft AGL Wind Speed/Gusts, Direction: 6 knots / , 150°
Lowest Ceiling: Broken / 1000 ft AGL Visibility: 10 miles
Altimeter Setting: 29.8 inches Hg Type of Flight Plan Filed: IFR
Departure Point: Atlanta, GA Destination: Manassas, VA (HEF)

Wreckage and Impact Information

Category Data Category Data
Crew Injuries: 1 None Aircraft Damage: Substantial
Passenger Injuries: 2 None Aircraft Fire: None
Ground Injuries: Aircraft Explosion: None
Total Injuries: 3 None Latitude, Longitude: 33.868074,-84.306181 (est)

Administrative Information

Category Data Category Data
Investigator In Charge (IIC): Wentz, Peter Additional Participating Persons: Steven L Davidson; FAA FSDO; Atlanta Danny Cox; FAA FSDO; Atlanta
Note: The NTSB did not travel to the scene of this accident.
This text was generated by NTSB_bot_2 solely using the below PDF
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2020.10.20 22:34 assessment_bot [3 None] [October 11 2020] PIPER PA32, Atlanta/ GA

General Info

Category Data Category Data
Location: Atlanta, GA Accident Number: ERA21LA019
Date & Time: October 11, 2020, 08:25 Local Registration: N3595W
Aircraft: PIPER PA32 Injuries: 3 None
Flight Conducted Under:

Description

On October 11, 2020, about 0825 eastern daylight time, a Piper PA-32-260, N3595W, was substantially damaged when it was involved in an accident at Dekalb-Peachtree Airport (PDK), Atlanta, Georgia. The pilot and two passengers were not injured. The airplane was operated as a Title 14 Code of Federal Regulations Part 91 personal flight. According to the pilot, he landed at PDK on October 10, 2020, and requested the airplane fuel tanks be topped off. On the day of the accident, he performed a preflight inspection of the airplane with no anomalies noted and taxied the airplane to runway 21R. He fiadvanced the throttle to full power for takeoff and noted that the RPMs was producing full power, temps and pressures where in range and that airspeed was alive and increasing as normal.fl The pilot stated that after takeoff, the airplane continued to accelerate normally until about 150-200 ft above ground level when he noted an fiabrupt reduction in engine noise.fl He attempted to land on the remaining runway; however, the airplane departed the runway and traveled about 200 ft into the grass. After the airplane came to rest, the pilot subsequently restarted the engine and taxied the airplane from the grass back onto the runway, where it was towed to the ramp. The airplane was retained for further examination.

Aircraft and OwneOperator Information

Category Data Category Data
Aircraft Make: PIPER Registration: N3595W
Model/Series: PA32 260 Aircraft Category: Airplane
Amateur Built: No Operator:
Operating Certificate(s) Held: None Operator Designator Code:

Meteorological Information and Flight Plan

Category Data Category Data
Conditions at Accident Site: VMC Condition of Light: Day
Observation Facility, Elevation: KPDK,1002 ft msl Observation Time: 07:53 Local
Distance from Accident Site: 0 Nautical Miles Temperature/Dew Point: 21°C /20°C
Lowest Cloud Condition: Few / 1000 ft AGL Wind Speed/Gusts, Direction: 6 knots / , 150°
Lowest Ceiling: Broken / 1000 ft AGL Visibility: 10 miles
Altimeter Setting: 29.8 inches Hg Type of Flight Plan Filed: IFR
Departure Point: Atlanta, GA Destination: Manassas, VA (HEF)

Wreckage and Impact Information

Category Data Category Data
Crew Injuries: 1 None Aircraft Damage: Substantial
Passenger Injuries: 2 None Aircraft Fire: None
Ground Injuries: Aircraft Explosion: None
Total Injuries: 3 None Latitude, Longitude: 33.868074,-84.306181 (est)

Administrative Information

Category Data Category Data
Investigator In Charge (IIC): Wentz, Peter Additional Participating Persons: Steven L Davidson; FAA FSDO; Atlanta Danny Cox; FAA FSDO; Atlanta
Note: The NTSB did not travel to the scene of this accident.
This text was generated by NTSB_bot_2 solely using the below PDF
Docket: https://data.ntsb.gov/Docket?ProjectID=PDFs\102138
PDF: http://data.ntsb.gov/carol-repgen/api/Aviation/ReportMain/GeneratePreliminaryReport/PDFs\102138/pdf
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2020.10.20 22:33 assessment_bot [3 None] [October 11 2020] PIPER PA32, Atlanta/ GA

General Info

Category Data Category Data
Location: Atlanta, GA Accident Number: ERA21LA019
Date & Time: October 11, 2020, 08:25 Local Registration: N3595W
Aircraft: PIPER PA32 Injuries: 3 None
Flight Conducted Under:

Description

On October 11, 2020, about 0825 eastern daylight time, a Piper PA-32-260, N3595W, was substantially damaged when it was involved in an accident at Dekalb-Peachtree Airport (PDK), Atlanta, Georgia. The pilot and two passengers were not injured. The airplane was operated as a Title 14 Code of Federal Regulations Part 91 personal flight. According to the pilot, he landed at PDK on October 10, 2020, and requested the airplane fuel tanks be topped off. On the day of the accident, he performed a preflight inspection of the airplane with no anomalies noted and taxied the airplane to runway 21R. He fiadvanced the throttle to full power for takeoff and noted that the RPMs was producing full power, temps and pressures where in range and that airspeed was alive and increasing as normal.fl The pilot stated that after takeoff, the airplane continued to accelerate normally until about 150-200 ft above ground level when he noted an fiabrupt reduction in engine noise.fl He attempted to land on the remaining runway; however, the airplane departed the runway and traveled about 200 ft into the grass. After the airplane came to rest, the pilot subsequently restarted the engine and taxied the airplane from the grass back onto the runway, where it was towed to the ramp. The airplane was retained for further examination.

Aircraft and OwneOperator Information

Category Data Category Data
Aircraft Make: PIPER Registration: N3595W
Model/Series: PA32 260 Aircraft Category: Airplane
Amateur Built: No Operator:
Operating Certificate(s) Held: None Operator Designator Code:

Meteorological Information and Flight Plan

Category Data Category Data
Conditions at Accident Site: VMC Condition of Light: Day
Observation Facility, Elevation: KPDK,1002 ft msl Observation Time: 07:53 Local
Distance from Accident Site: 0 Nautical Miles Temperature/Dew Point: 21°C /20°C
Lowest Cloud Condition: Few / 1000 ft AGL Wind Speed/Gusts, Direction: 6 knots / , 150°
Lowest Ceiling: Broken / 1000 ft AGL Visibility: 10 miles
Altimeter Setting: 29.8 inches Hg Type of Flight Plan Filed: IFR
Departure Point: Atlanta, GA Destination: Manassas, VA (HEF)

Wreckage and Impact Information

Category Data Category Data
Crew Injuries: 1 None Aircraft Damage: Substantial
Passenger Injuries: 2 None Aircraft Fire: None
Ground Injuries: Aircraft Explosion: None
Total Injuries: 3 None Latitude, Longitude: 33.868074,-84.306181 (est)

Administrative Information

Category Data Category Data
Investigator In Charge (IIC): Wentz, Peter Additional Participating Persons: Steven L Davidson; FAA FSDO; Atlanta Danny Cox; FAA FSDO; Atlanta
Note: The NTSB did not travel to the scene of this accident.
This text was generated by NTSB_bot_2 solely using the below PDF
Docket: https://data.ntsb.gov/Docket?ProjectID=PDFs\102138
PDF: http://data.ntsb.gov/carol-repgen/api/Aviation/ReportMain/GeneratePreliminaryReport/PDFs\102138/pdf
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2020.10.20 22:31 assessment_bot [3 None] [October 11 2020] PIPER PA32, Atlanta/ GA

General Info

Category Data Category Data
Location: Atlanta, GA Accident Number: ERA21LA019
Date & Time: October 11, 2020, 08:25 Local Registration: N3595W
Aircraft: PIPER PA32 Injuries: 3 None
Flight Conducted Under:

Description

On October 11, 2020, about 0825 eastern daylight time, a Piper PA-32-260, N3595W, was substantially damaged when it was involved in an accident at Dekalb-Peachtree Airport (PDK), Atlanta, Georgia. The pilot and two passengers were not injured. The airplane was operated as a Title 14 Code of Federal Regulations Part 91 personal flight. According to the pilot, he landed at PDK on October 10, 2020, and requested the airplane fuel tanks be topped off. On the day of the accident, he performed a preflight inspection of the airplane with no anomalies noted and taxied the airplane to runway 21R. He fiadvanced the throttle to full power for takeoff and noted that the RPMs was producing full power, temps and pressures where in range and that airspeed was alive and increasing as normal.fl The pilot stated that after takeoff, the airplane continued to accelerate normally until about 150-200 ft above ground level when he noted an fiabrupt reduction in engine noise.fl He attempted to land on the remaining runway; however, the airplane departed the runway and traveled about 200 ft into the grass. After the airplane came to rest, the pilot subsequently restarted the engine and taxied the airplane from the grass back onto the runway, where it was towed to the ramp. The airplane was retained for further examination.

Aircraft and OwneOperator Information

Category Data Category Data
Aircraft Make: PIPER Registration: N3595W
Model/Series: PA32 260 Aircraft Category: Airplane
Amateur Built: No Operator:
Operating Certificate(s) Held: None Operator Designator Code:

Meteorological Information and Flight Plan

Category Data Category Data
Conditions at Accident Site: VMC Condition of Light: Day
Observation Facility, Elevation: KPDK,1002 ft msl Observation Time: 07:53 Local
Distance from Accident Site: 0 Nautical Miles Temperature/Dew Point: 21°C /20°C
Lowest Cloud Condition: Few / 1000 ft AGL Wind Speed/Gusts, Direction: 6 knots / , 150°
Lowest Ceiling: Broken / 1000 ft AGL Visibility: 10 miles
Altimeter Setting: 29.8 inches Hg Type of Flight Plan Filed: IFR
Departure Point: Atlanta, GA Destination: Manassas, VA (HEF)

Wreckage and Impact Information

Category Data Category Data
Crew Injuries: 1 None Aircraft Damage: Substantial
Passenger Injuries: 2 None Aircraft Fire: None
Ground Injuries: Aircraft Explosion: None
Total Injuries: 3 None Latitude, Longitude: 33.868074,-84.306181 (est)

Administrative Information

Category Data Category Data
Investigator In Charge (IIC): Wentz, Peter Additional Participating Persons: Steven L Davidson; FAA FSDO; Atlanta Danny Cox; FAA FSDO; Atlanta
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2020.10.20 22:19 assessment_bot [3 None] [October 11 2020] PIPER PA32, Atlanta/ GA

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Location: Atlanta, GA Accident Number: ERA21LA019
Date & Time: October 11, 2020, 08:25 Local Registration: N3595W
Aircraft: PIPER PA32 Injuries: 3 None
Flight Conducted Under:

Description

On October 11, 2020, about 0825 eastern daylight time, a Piper PA-32-260, N3595W, was substantially damaged when it was involved in an accident at Dekalb-Peachtree Airport (PDK), Atlanta, Georgia. The pilot and two passengers were not injured. The airplane was operated as a Title 14 Code of Federal Regulations Part 91 personal flight. According to the pilot, he landed at PDK on October 10, 2020, and requested the airplane fuel tanks be topped off. On the day of the accident, he performed a preflight inspection of the airplane with no anomalies noted and taxied the airplane to runway 21R. He fiadvanced the throttle to full power for takeoff and noted that the RPMs was producing full power, temps and pressures where in range and that airspeed was alive and increasing as normal.fl The pilot stated that after takeoff, the airplane continued to accelerate normally until about 150-200 ft above ground level when he noted an fiabrupt reduction in engine noise.fl He attempted to land on the remaining runway; however, the airplane departed the runway and traveled about 200 ft into the grass. After the airplane came to rest, the pilot subsequently restarted the engine and taxied the airplane from the grass back onto the runway, where it was towed to the ramp. The airplane was retained for further examination.

Aircraft and OwneOperator Information

Category Data Category Data
Aircraft Make: PIPER Registration: N3595W
Model/Series: PA32 260 Aircraft Category: Airplane
Amateur Built: No Operator:
Operating Certificate(s) Held: None Operator Designator Code:

Meteorological Information and Flight Plan

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Conditions at Accident Site: VMC Condition of Light: Day
Observation Facility, Elevation: KPDK,1002 ft msl Observation Time: 07:53 Local
Distance from Accident Site: 0 Nautical Miles Temperature/Dew Point: 21°C /20°C
Lowest Cloud Condition: Few / 1000 ft AGL Wind Speed/Gusts, Direction: 6 knots / , 150°
Lowest Ceiling: Broken / 1000 ft AGL Visibility: 10 miles
Altimeter Setting: 29.8 inches Hg Type of Flight Plan Filed: IFR
Departure Point: Atlanta, GA Destination: Manassas, VA (HEF)

Wreckage and Impact Information

Category Data Category Data
Crew Injuries: 1 None Aircraft Damage: Substantial
Passenger Injuries: 2 None Aircraft Fire: None
Ground Injuries: Aircraft Explosion: None
Total Injuries: 3 None Latitude, Longitude: 33.868074,-84.306181 (est)

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Investigator In Charge (IIC): Wentz, Peter Additional Participating Persons: Steven L Davidson; FAA FSDO; Atlanta Danny Cox; FAA FSDO; Atlanta
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Location: Atlanta, GA Accident Number: ERA21LA019
Date & Time: October 11, 2020, 08:25 Local Registration: N3595W
Aircraft: PIPER PA32 Injuries: 3 None
Flight Conducted Under:

Description

On October 11, 2020, about 0825 eastern daylight time, a Piper PA-32-260, N3595W, was substantially damaged when it was involved in an accident at Dekalb-Peachtree Airport (PDK), Atlanta, Georgia. The pilot and two passengers were not injured. The airplane was operated as a Title 14 Code of Federal Regulations Part 91 personal flight. According to the pilot, he landed at PDK on October 10, 2020, and requested the airplane fuel tanks be topped off. On the day of the accident, he performed a preflight inspection of the airplane with no anomalies noted and taxied the airplane to runway 21R. He fiadvanced the throttle to full power for takeoff and noted that the RPMs was producing full power, temps and pressures where in range and that airspeed was alive and increasing as normal.fl The pilot stated that after takeoff, the airplane continued to accelerate normally until about 150-200 ft above ground level when he noted an fiabrupt reduction in engine noise.fl He attempted to land on the remaining runway; however, the airplane departed the runway and traveled about 200 ft into the grass. After the airplane came to rest, the pilot subsequently restarted the engine and taxied the airplane from the grass back onto the runway, where it was towed to the ramp. The airplane was retained for further examination.

Aircraft and OwneOperator Information

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Aircraft Make: PIPER Registration: N3595W
Model/Series: PA32 260 Aircraft Category: Airplane
Amateur Built: No Operator:
Operating Certificate(s) Held: None Operator Designator Code:

Meteorological Information and Flight Plan

Category Data Category Data
Conditions at Accident Site: VMC Condition of Light: Day
Observation Facility, Elevation: KPDK,1002 ft msl Observation Time: 07:53 Local
Distance from Accident Site: 0 Nautical Miles Temperature/Dew Point: 21°C /20°C
Lowest Cloud Condition: Few / 1000 ft AGL Wind Speed/Gusts, Direction: 6 knots / , 150°
Lowest Ceiling: Broken / 1000 ft AGL Visibility: 10 miles
Altimeter Setting: 29.8 inches Hg Type of Flight Plan Filed: IFR
Departure Point: Atlanta, GA Destination: Manassas, VA (HEF)

Wreckage and Impact Information

Category Data Category Data
Crew Injuries: 1 None Aircraft Damage: Substantial
Passenger Injuries: 2 None Aircraft Fire: None
Ground Injuries: Aircraft Explosion: None
Total Injuries: 3 None Latitude, Longitude: 33.868074,-84.306181 (est)

Administrative Information

Category Data Category Data
Investigator In Charge (IIC): Wentz, Peter Additional Participating Persons: Steven L Davidson; FAA FSDO; Atlanta Danny Cox; FAA FSDO; Atlanta
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2020.10.20 21:41 Anatoly_Korenchkin Test

General Info

Category Data Category Data
Location: Atlanta, GA Accident Number: ERA21LA019
Date & Time: October 11, 2020, 08:25 Local Registration: N3595W
Aircraft: PIPER PA32 Injuries: 3 None
Flight Conducted Under:

Description

On October 11, 2020, about 0825 eastern daylight time, a Piper PA-32-260, N3595W, was substantially damaged when it was involved in an accident at Dekalb-Peachtree Airport (PDK), Atlanta, Georgia. The pilot and two passengers were not injured. The airplane was operated as a Title 14 Code of Federal Regulations Part 91 personal flight. According to the pilot, he landed at PDK on October 10, 2020, and requested the airplane fuel tanks be topped off. On the day of the accident, he performed a preflight inspection of the airplane with no anomalies noted and taxied the airplane to runway 21R. He fiadvanced the throttle to full power for takeoff and noted that the RPMs was producing full power, temps and pressures where in range and that airspeed was alive and increasing as normal.fl The pilot stated that after takeoff, the airplane continued to accelerate normally until about 150-200 ft above ground level when he noted an fiabrupt reduction in engine noise.fl He attempted to land on the remaining runway; however, the airplane departed the runway and traveled about 200 ft into the grass. After the airplane came to rest, the pilot subsequently restarted the engine and taxied the airplane from the grass back onto the runway, where it was towed to the ramp. The airplane was retained for further examination.

Aircraft and OwneOperator Information

Category Data Category Data
Aircraft Make: PIPER Registration: N3595W
Model/Series: PA32 260 Aircraft Category: Airplane
Amateur Built: No Operator:
Operating Certificate(s) Held: None Operator Designator Code:

Meteorological Information and Flight Plan

Category Data Category Data
Conditions at Accident Site: VMC Condition of Light: Day
Observation Facility, Elevation: KPDK,1002 ft msl Observation Time: 07:53 Local
Distance from Accident Site: 0 Nautical Miles Temperature/Dew Point: 21°C /20°C
Lowest Cloud Condition: Few / 1000 ft AGL Wind Speed/Gusts, Direction: 6 knots / , 150°
Lowest Ceiling: Broken / 1000 ft AGL Visibility: 10 miles
Altimeter Setting: 29.8 inches Hg Type of Flight Plan Filed: IFR
Departure Point: Atlanta, GA Destination: Manassas, VA (HEF)

Wreckage and Impact Information

Category Data Category Data
Crew Injuries: 1 None Aircraft Damage: Substantial
Passenger Injuries: 2 None Aircraft Fire: None
Ground Injuries: Aircraft Explosion: None
Total Injuries: 3 None Latitude, Longitude: 33.868074,-84.306181 (est)

Administrative Information

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2020.10.20 06:30 throwawayaracehorse The Massacre at Crybaby Bridge: An Oral History - Finale and Aftermath

The following is the conclusion of my senior capstone for my journalism degree. I sought out to explore the truth behind a local legend in my hometown. My professor rejected the original draft due to its disturbing and unbelievable nature, even though everyone I spoke to claims they're telling the truth. The previous parts are available here:
Part 1 - Part 2 - Part 3 - Part 4 - Part 5 - Part 6 - Part 7
PART 8
BOB SCHROEDER, LOCAL HISTORIAN: The Massacre at Crybaby Bridge will live on in the annals of Somerset history and lore. Like all local legends, it’s not immune to thegossip and embellishments that are inevitable in a rural town the size of Somerset.
The state news covered it for about a week and it barely made a blip in the national news headlines. The nation was too caught up with coverage of the war in Iraq and Afghanistan. There was also an effort by many members of the community to suppress the story. They didn’t want the travesty to be the only thing the town was known for.
STEPHEN PARKER: How much fight could I possibly have left? How much adrenaline did I have in reserve? I know that a certain point that death might come as relief. I would no longer have to feel scared for my life.
I wasn’t ready yet.
We rounded the side of the house. There was a barn out back, old and wooden. Completely dark. An old truck was parked next to the barn. Maybe it was open. Maybe it would have the keys in it. Nick headed straight for it. I followed. “Need...to...catch my breath,” he gasped. “Me too,” I agreed.
DAVID NEAL, SHERIFF, MOMADAY COUNTY: The Loveless property was a massacre in its own right. That place alone might be the kind of crime scene that sticks with you for years. Five dead at the scene and in all of those different manners.
STEPHEN PARKER: The doors to the truck were locked. We darted to the inside of the barn. We couldn’t hear anything from behind us, no signs we had been seen or followed. It was really dark in there and as my eyes adjusted I could see a tractor parked dead center of the barn and smell the musty scent of dust and hay.
There was a loft towards the back of the barn that was loaded with bales of hay. A ladder led up to it and in the back of the loft under the angle of the barn’s roof was an open window.
“Let’s hide up there, catch our breath,” Nick said, pointing. Looking back it seems like such a rookie horror movie mistake.
The loft was warm and stuffy and Nick quickly piled up a few bales for us to hide behind. We lied on our bellies like soldiers in a foxhole, peeking through a crack in our alfalfa barricade, waiting for the enemy.
DAVID NEAL, SHERIFF, MOMADAY COUNTY: The first body we encountered was Floyd Loveless. He was deceased on the porch with an extensive penetrating neck injury.
JOEY KESSLER, LOCAL RESIDENT, FARMER**:** They were confused as to what to do with that ol’ gal with the blade in her back. Everyone was afraid to move it. I got creative while they was twiddling their thumbs and waiting on the helicopter. I rushed back with my cutting torch and cut it down close enough to her back.
SKYE BRIGGS: What else could I do but pray? I’d never done it much before, but I sure as hell was right then.
STEPHEN PARKER: The mind of a teenager is not a rational thing. I don’t know what I was thinking. My best friend had just been brutally killed and I had seen it, seen him staggering around in his final throes before he collapsed. All of the others, too.
Maybe stress had done crazy things to my mind. Maybe the adrenaline and survival instinct had made it impossible for me to feel any sort of grief.
It felt like we were up in that loft a long time. I guess it was the silence that made it feel that way. All that I know is that I felt safe in that moment despite all that had happened, the dark all around, the warmth. It felt like there would never be another one.
I could feel Nick’s body rising and falling beside me, his heavy respirations slowing as he caught his breath. I could feel his warmth in the crisp autumn air and smell his sweat and cologne.
In the dark it was like we were anywhere else.
I whispered his name.
“Yeah,” he whispered back, and his face was close to mine as he turned. I took it in my hand and right there in that dusty, hay filled barn, I leaned in to kiss him.
The mind of a teenager is not a rational thing.
DAVID NEAL, SHERIFF, MOMADAY COUNTY: Around the backside of the house we found the second body. A decapitation had occurred.
STEPHEN PARKER: He didn’t turn away right away, didn’t shove me off in a fit of disgust. For a second he let me, I think. I could feel his lips and mouth and then he pulled away.
“Stephen. C’mon man. A bunch of people are dead.”
“Oh. Yeah. You’re right.”
He gave me a pat on the back and then whispered, “I’ve got a plan. If he comes here we can go out the window. It’s a twelve foot drop. We’ll just hang off the side and let go. Bet we could do it pretty quietly.”
Before we could discuss any more there was a scream.
DAVID NEAL, SHERIFF, MOMADAY COUNTY: It was presumed that Mrs. Lorraine Loveless had come out to check on her husband, encountered the perpetrator, and fled to the backside of the house.
STEPHEN PARKER: It was a woman’s voice, screaming “Floyd! Floyd!” and then these kinds of yelps that started sounding closer and then nothing.
DAVID NEAL: Next it was presumed that Shaun Loveless, the son of Mr. and Mrs. Loveless that lived on the property in a fifth wheel camper trailer, attempted to subdue the suspect. His body was found nearby with a twelve-gauge pump action shotgun that was empty of shells. There was blunt trauma to the head with gray matter in the nearby grass accompanied with massive blood loss.
STEPHEN PARKER: After a little while we heard the angry shouts of a man, followed by several gunshots. From our vantage point, this seemed to be coming from a direction away from the house. Nick’s eyes got big. We inched backwards towards the window, but then he stopped, looked at me.
“I’m through running,” he said. His face was serious. “He’s just gonna keep coming and coming and more innocent people are gonna get caught up in it. I’ve got an idea.”
I could only stammer out a “What?”
“Stay here,” he said and gave me a smile. “Go out the window if things get too hairy.”
SKYE BRIGGS: They say the explosion could be heard for miles. I certainly heard it.
STEPHEN PARKER: Nick slithered down the ladder, disappeared in the shadows below me. I waited. So much for my heart rate going back to normal. It beat rapidly in anticipation and I felt close to pissing myself as I feared the worst to come.
STEPHEN PARKER: I still get nightmares where I’m at the end of a long hallway. There’s a door on the other end and it opens. I see that figure, that face, the one that had now appeared in the wide doorway of the barn. It was as close a look at him as I’d been able to get so far. His eyes were dark dead pits in the middle of an expressionless face. I could see now that he wore some type of mask over the top half of his face. His head was sleek and without hair. There were several bleeding holes scattered around his torso, blood oozing from them and not appearing to slow him down in any capacity. In his hands he wielded a T-post. Whether it was the same one he had used before or another I don’t know. It looked wet. Something dripped from its sharp edge.
DAVID NEAL: We arrived on the scene after the explosion. In fact, several of the deputies en route to the area heard it.
STEPHEN PARKER: That motherfucker looked up at me. The tractor roared to life, the diesel engine revving, the gears grinded as the clutch was popped and it lurched forward. It had a front end loader on its front-- basically like this bulldozer kind of thing. It slammed into Big Baby. He didn’t fall underneath it, he withstood the blow, caught it right in his arms and managed to push back on his feet against it. The engine struggled and the throttle roared and Nick sat behind the wheel.
Big Baby managed to skitter back a few feet, but the tractor kept coming for him and soon they both were well out of the barn. Nick maneuvered the levers and tilted the front end loader’s bucket to keep Big Baby on his heels. I slid down the ladder and ducked my head out of the barn’s doorway to watch the outcome.
The last steps took place in a matter of fast forward, before I could truly comprehend what was going on. Big Baby’s arms were bloody and he hung onto the bucket of the front end loader, attempting to pull himself up. His feet hung above the ground. It seemed his goal was climb onto the arms and leap at Nick if he had the chance.
He wasn’t quick enough.
Nick shifted gears and the tractor revved forward to a utility line pole to the left of the house. Sitting next to that pole was the shiny silver of a propane tank, one of those that are shaped like a pill and the size of a house.
I yelled for Nick to look out, yelled for him to jump off, as if gunning straight for that tank hadn’t been his plan all along. As if he didn’t know the stakes.
As if he didn’t know exactly what he was doing.
There was the collision of metal on a body and then the sound of grinding metal as the corner of the bucket pierced the tank. The gas hissed as it escaped and I saw Nick stand up in his seat and fish around in his pocket. He was pretty far away, but I could make out his hand movements as a flame appeared in his hand, the flame from a Zippo lighter.
JOEY KESSLER: I heard that explosion and I thought, “what now?”
IRENE MYRTLE, LOCAL RESIDENT: I thought the good Lord was coming down to get us. The rapture y’know?
TERESA RUSSEL, 911 OPERATOR: The calls started coming in left and right, first the injuries and then about the explosion and all in this particular part of the county. It was mayhem for a while. Busiest night I ever worked.
EDDIE DUNN: LOCAL RESIDENT, UNEMPLOYED: I thought it was them damn terrorists, myself. Heard they might try and strike a little place like the Somerset area on account of all our oil wells and the like. Had even seen some A-rabs at the truck stop recently.
STEPHEN PARKER: If this is a feel-good action movie, if I’m the one writing the screenplay, then Nick turns his back right as he throws the lighter. He does a running leap off the back of the tractor just as the propane tank explodes. The fireball propels him forward, singing the back of his shirt and head and that’s it. He lands in the grass and I run to him and I say, “Looks like you got out just in the Nick of time.” We both laugh and embrace. End scene.
But that’s not what happened no matter how much I look back and try and rewrite it in my mind. What happened was he managed to do a half turn before the tank exploded and the flames engulfed him.
Through the smoldering rubble and debris I found his body and rolled him over and it was clear that there would be no happy ending for us. No final words. Just an embrace followed by me scrambling into the house, finding a phone, dialing 911.
That was it.
SOMERSET REGISTER 10/xx/2003, FRONT PAGE: MULTIPLE VICTIMS IN KILLING SPREE SATURDAY NIGHT, SUSPECT DECEASED AT SCENE, TEENAGER REMAINS IN CRITICAL CONDITION
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AFTERMATH
SKYE BRIGGS: What we went through only made me stronger. I hate that it happened and I’m not trying to say I’m ultimately glad that it happened or anything like that. I guess what I’m saying is that after you go through something so terrible, it really puts everything into perspective y’know? All your insecurities, all your fears--surviving something like that, they’re nothing in comparison. Besides, I’m only living the life that I think Hailey would want me to. My new confidence or whatever is a testament to her. I mean if you look at what she’s gone through, it’s the least I could do. I think she’s proud of me, but I’m even more proud of her. I could only hope to be fifteen percent of what she is and has always been.
HAILEY ADAMS: That’s something I speak about at my engagements. How even still after all this time and what I’ve remade myself into, there’s still people that speak from the perspective that I’ve had my life ruined or whatever. I don’t look at it that way. Were there times I got down about what I had lost?
Hell yeah. I got pretty low on several occasions. In the end I looked at it as my life was headed in one direction and then this happened and it swerved to this other direction.
The extent of Hailey Adams’s injuries was significant. She was medflighted to the University Hospital, the state’s only Level One trauma center, where she underwent an eight hour surgery. In the end she was left with a spinal cord injury that left her with paraplegia.
Her disability was only the beginning of her journey, however. After rehabilitation and high school graduation she attended college and received her teaching certificate where she became a cheer coach and special education teacher for a number of years. She would later become an advocate for those with disabilities and became quite active on the motivational speech circuit. She has signed a book deal with Simon and Schuster for the publication of her memoir.
She is married and has two children.
STEPHEN PARKER: Back when I would get those emails from Dylan about him and Nick hanging out and I would get this uncomfortable feeling I didn’t quite understand. Later, I would be able to put a name to that feeling: jealousy.
I wished it was me hanging out with Nick instead of him, sweating in that barn and playing guitar, his jawline and the look in his eyes while he played and got lost in the music. I would imagine it would get hot and there and we would have to take off our shirts and then who knows what would happen. It was a fantasy I returned to often and it left me feeling guilty and ashamed. I tried to suppress it.
I didn’t come out for many years after. I grew up going to church and church camps and all that stuff and I guess I suppressed a lot of stuff, y’know? Grew up hearing the word “f-g” and “fxxgot” tossed around. There was lots of denial and confusion. For the longest time, I thought that the death of Nick and everything we’d been through was a punishment for being gay.
SKYE BRIGGS: Steve and I? Yeah, we ended up dating for a while. A long while actually. Going through that event together really made us closer. How could it not? We would go visit Hailey at the hospital together. We would recommend music to each other. My dad, he would teach Steve guitar. He was my date to Junior Prom and we even went to Senior Prom together as friends.
If you had told me before that night all of this, it would’ve seemed like a dream come true. After a while though I realized something was up. I had no qualms or hang ups about sex before marriage and when we got to that point in the relationship I noticed something was...off. Like he wasn’t totally into me that way? I mean I tried to convince myself otherwise and he would swear up and down that he was, but there was a drunken night in his den our senior year when we went out to the alley to look up at the night sky and he broke down and confessed.
STEPHEN PARKER: I could trust Skye. It was finally time for me to tell someone, but I asked her to keep it secret. We continued to fake it for a while and eventually broke up. We still keep in touch pretty regularly, although it’s been hard in recent years.
Skye Briggs became the front woman to an alternative rock band. They performed at Vans Warped Tour, SXSW, and ACL Music Festival among others over the years. They had several mild crossover hits including songs featured in various soundtracks for television and movies that you have most likely heard.
She is twice divorced and has a daughter and when not parenting she can be found working on her solo musical career. Her debut solo album is set to release next year.
BOB SCHROEDER, LOCAL HISTORIAN: Why does such a tale captivate us? It is a classic tale with much in common with the slasher genre of films from the horror section of the video rental store. There are teens to be sacrificed, bodies to be collected, scores to be paid, and lessons to be learned. Except in this tale, I’m not sure that there is a moral or lesson to be learned.
STEPHEN PARKER: A moral? A lesson to be learned? Stay home, I guess. Wrap yourself up in bubble wrap and never go outside.
BOB SCHROEDER: Teenagers as a cautionary tale is an old concept. They are the bridges to adulthood, yet we’ve used them over the years for various ends. They are young and dumb and full of come. Or is it piss and vinegar? I can’t remember.
They are nine foot tall and bullet-proof. Or so they think. We use this to our advantage, get them to join our wars and fight for us. They will storm that hill without a second thought and we like them for that. The thirty year old might have second thoughts about it.
We give them 2 ton hunks of steel, death machines capable of reaching speeds of 120 MPH. We give them cell phones to check in with us, knowing full well that they are distracting and likely to increase the chance of a wreck. We cross our fingers and hope for the best.
We send them to school with bullet-proof backpacks and contingency plans for school shooters. We haven’t figured out a better solution.
Our teens are lambs to the slaughter. Always have been. (shrugs shoulders) Eh, but most of them make it out ok.
STEPHEN PARKER: I mentioned earlier that I had found myself back in Somerset years down the road. I mentioned that it brought the emotions roaring back. I found myself in the park and I got out and it was mostly empty, but I was under this row of giant sycamore trees, and I walked around a little until it hit me like a sledgehammer to the gut.
I just broke down and wept. I wept for my past. I wept for Nick and Dylan. I wept for what could’ve been.
BOB SCHROEDER: The other thing about slashers is that they often feature the common trope of the killer getting away. The killer is out there, not quite dead, waiting to return again.
STATE BUREAU OF INVESTIGATION NOTES, OCT 2003: A body from the state medical examiner’s office has been reported missing. The body of the John Doe believed to be responsible for the numerous deaths in Somerset has vanished from the lab site. If you have any information regarding this please contact us at (XXX) XXX-XXXX.
STEPHEN PARKER: I mentioned before about pivotal moments and I’ve thought of another. It’s one that I keep coming back to, a moment outside of all of the trauma. Something warm. Something comforting. In spite of everything that happened, I’m glad that I have this.
Let me set the scene. We’re heading out to Buster’s and we’re all a little giddy. Dylan, he says, “Look at us, just a regular bunch of Breakfast Club motherfuckers up in here.”
HAILEY: Oh really? Why’s that?
DYLAN: It’s an unlikely crew is all I’m saying.
HAILEY: Oh, because I thought you were saying its like all of us fit into a bunch of cliched roles. Are you saying that I’m the cheerleader and Nick’s the jock? What does that make Stephen and Skye?
NICK: I ain’t no jock.
SKYE: Wait, are you saying I’m the weird girl?
STEPHEN: No way in hell you’re the rebel, Nick. You’re the geeky dude.
DYLAN: Look, can we just drop it? How about we’re the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles or Justice League or something?
Just then, Nick starts to sing the chorus of that song from the movie, “Hey! Hey! Hey! Don’t you...forget about me…” And before you know it it was like a goddamn singalong, the whole truck singing along.
So this was another pivotal moment, for we were all happy and it was like this high we would continue to pursue so that the night didn’t have to end.
Now I’m not a journalist or writer or anything, but if I was writing this thing, that’s where I’d end it.
END

Stephen Parker drifted for a few years after high school. He eventually pursued a career in medicine. He lives in California.
Image of Bridge 17 Years Later: https://imgur.com/a/CwuQxbF
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2020.10.19 08:20 lawyered-up5 My boyfriend (22M) thinks it's okay to openly disrespect me (21F) time and time again.

The Situation: 2 nights ago, while me and my bf were on a Facetime call, he asked me to search the web for something and when I told him that I do not have access into the file he was asking me to search for, he got very angry. He started raising his voice at me, and yelling, saying "If I find it, I'm going to be so pissed." Basically he was trying to say 'you better watch out.' During high-pressure situations I often get stressed (he knows I deal with anxiety) so I decided to look one more time to confirm what I already knew - that I did not have access to the file he was requesting me to find. I told him yet AGAIN that there is not possible way for him to find it either as the application does not allow you. In his mind, apparently I didn't understand and I was "being stupid" so he started going off on a tangent to lecture/yell at me. I didn't appreciate his tone and the fact that he was talking down to me so I interrupted him to tell him to watch his tongue. Instead, he got more mad and said "Interrupt me again and watch me cancel your shoot tomorrow" (I was having a photoshoot at his private property the next day) and then proceeded to say "I need you to apologize for interrupting me right now." I was hesitant at first but I ended up apologizing because I didn't want to escalate the situation. Mind you, he made me apologize 4-5 times because apparently it wasn't "genuine." However, after that he wanted me to apologize for being "too incompetent and stupid to understand him" and that's where I drew the line and got upset. I interrupted him again and told him that he can not talk down to me like that, and this led to him yelling in my face saying "You can talk when I give you permission to talk." And that's where I lost it and started yelling back and cut the call on his face. He tried to call me but I didn't pick up his calls and messaged him saying "I can't believe you think it's okay to talk to me like that." Instead of apologizing and recognizing his mistake, he actually told me "not to bother coming tomorrow" and that he was "cancelling my shoot." Now this is a shoot for my upcoming company that I'm super passionate about and he knows how much it means to me. For him to use that against me baffles me to my core.
Post-fight: Anyways, fast forward to the next day, he had talked to my friend who is also starting the company with me and decided to let us shoot on location. He messaged me the next morning gas-lighting me and saying "I can't believe you didn't reach out to me or check up on me. You obviously don't care about my happiness. You ruined today." I didn't respond. I went on-site to shoot and we didn't talk the whole day even though we were in each other's presence. He messaged me saying "When you get home today, don't reach out." And I haven't messaged/called him since. It's now been 48 hours with no apology. In fact, he believes that he is the one who deserves an apology, and that I "wronged him." In the past 2 days where there has been complete radio silence from him, I have been contemplating breaking up with him. For me, if my S/O doesn't have respect for me, then there is no relationship. The only thing stopping me is: (1) The time I've put into and invested into this relationship to the point where I actually thought I would end up marrying this man one day, (2) I am scared of heartbreak as this is my first relationship (we've been dating for a little over a year now) and this is a really stressful time for me as I am writing entrance exams, doing a full course load, and applying to grad school while managing my start-up and I don't have time nor room to have a bad day and mess up my future; (3) My mind keeps thinking of his good qualities even though they don't make up for the bad ones; (4) Scared I won't find someone better to match up to my expectations/standards and I'll regret my decision. Again, all insecurities of mine that aren't logically based but still mess with my mental state and courage.
Advice: I don't know whether I should wait a week of complete radio silence to break up to see if he even tries to reach out or just call him to break it off. He's never not talked to me for this long, he usually always reaches out one way or another. I also don't know the best way to break up as I've never done it before and I'm literally terrified. I feel like if I break-up with him I'll grow to regret my decision for some reason. Please help.
In the Past: As I've been doing a lot of introspective thinking, I just to give you more context on this guy (my bf) but feel free to skip this part if you don't like reading. When we first started dating, he had recently gotten out of a long-term relationship (broke up with her over the phone) and dated me 1 and a half month after that break-up. I was apprehensive about that at first, but he assured me that he was completely over her and wanted to move forward with me seriously. I believed him and we started dating. During the first 6 months, I was in a very bad position in all areas of my life (2019 wasn't good to me) in terms of physical, emotional, and mental health and I feel that I was highly dependent on him to make me feel better or deal with my anxiety attacks. Early on, he would cuss me out if he got mad at me and this would sky rocket my anxiety and put me at an all-time low where I wouldn't move from my bed for days. I told him that if we were to be together, he could not verbally abuse me by calling me those names and after a couple of months he refrained but he would continuously remind me how much he was doing for me as he always cussed at his ex and never stopped. And how I should be grateful. He eventually resorted to using words like "idiot" and "moron" and "stupid" and when I told him I didn't appreciate that because those were still forms of verbal abuse, he said "that's just how I express my feelings so either you deal with it or leave." In the state that I was back then when I was so dependent on him, I didn't want to leave so I compromised and overlooked his shortcomings for the overall big picture and how "he was responsible," "he cared to call me every night," "he helped me get back on track with school and work."
He's also yelled at me in public on two separate outings. One time was where he was picking me up from work and closing up took longer than anticipated due to some last-min customers and he had to wait in the hot sun for 15 mins. He yelled at me in front of my then-manager. The second time was during our date when I made him walk too far for food as "now we're running out of time and it's all because of you."
He's also thrown multiple ultimatums at me to scare me into listening to him where he tells me "listen to me or this happens" "pick up my call right now or this happens." He's called me "crazy" and "extra" for getting annoyed at the way he treated me and sees no issue in being the way he is. He has acknowledged that he is rude and can be condescending but apparently "you either accept me the way I am or you leave." I have tried to change his habits numerous times and it always comes down to me not accepting him the way he is. Moreover, I don't think he's ever given me a sincere apology, and it's always me who compromises and apologizes after a fight where I was disrespected. The times where he has apologized, he will say something like "I'm sorry for making you late but it's also your fault for taking this long to get ready, or there was so much traffic and you didn't know the directions." He always turns it around on me.
TDLR; Boyfriend disrespected me by yelling in my face and saying I am "incompetent and stupid" as well as "you can only talk when I give you permission to talk" and when I got mad proceeded to tell me that it was MY mistake and I needed to apologize to him. We haven't talked for the past 48 hrs and he has not once reached out to apologize. I am contemplating breaking up with him but am scared I'll grow to regret it. I am also confused on whether I should wait a week to see if he calls/msgs to apologize or do it right away.
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2020.10.19 08:19 lawyered-up5 My boyfriend (22M) thinks it's okay to openly disrespect me (21F) time and time again.

The Situation: 2 nights ago, while me and my bf were on a Facetime call, he asked me to search the web for something and when I told him that I do not have access into the file he was asking me to search for, he got very angry. He started raising his voice at me, and yelling, saying "If I find it, I'm going to be so pissed." Basically he was trying to say 'you better watch out.' During high-pressure situations I often get stressed (he knows I deal with anxiety) so I decided to look one more time to confirm what I already knew - that I did not have access to the file he was requesting me to find. I told him yet AGAIN that there is not possible way for him to find it either as the application does not allow you. In his mind, apparently I didn't understand and I was "being stupid" so he started going off on a tangent to lecture/yell at me. I didn't appreciate his tone and the fact that he was talking down to me so I interrupted him to tell him to watch his tongue. Instead, he got more mad and said "Interrupt me again and watch me cancel your shoot tomorrow" (I was having a photoshoot at his private property the next day) and then proceeded to say "I need you to apologize for interrupting me right now." I was hesitant at first but I ended up apologizing because I didn't want to escalate the situation. Mind you, he made me apologize 4-5 times because apparently it wasn't "genuine." However, after that he wanted me to apologize for being "too incompetent and stupid to understand him" and that's where I drew the line and got upset. I interrupted him again and told him that he can not talk down to me like that, and this led to him yelling in my face saying "You can talk when I give you permission to talk." And that's where I lost it and started yelling back and cut the call on his face. He tried to call me but I didn't pick up his calls and messaged him saying "I can't believe you think it's okay to talk to me like that." Instead of apologizing and recognizing his mistake, he actually told me "not to bother coming tomorrow" and that he was "cancelling my shoot." Now this is a shoot for my upcoming company that I'm super passionate about and he knows how much it means to me. For him to use that against me baffles me to my core.
Post-fight: Anyways, fast forward to the next day, he had talked to my friend who is also starting the company with me and decided to let us shoot on location. He messaged me the next morning gas-lighting me and saying "I can't believe you didn't reach out to me or check up on me. You obviously don't care about my happiness. You ruined today." I didn't respond. I went on-site to shoot and we didn't talk the whole day even though we were in each other's presence. He messaged me saying "When you get home today, don't reach out." And I haven't messaged/called him since. It's now been 48 hours with no apology. In fact, he believes that he is the one who deserves an apology, and that I "wronged him." In the past 2 days where there has been complete radio silence from him, I have been contemplating breaking up with him. For me, if my S/O doesn't have respect for me, then there is no relationship. The only thing stopping me is: (1) The time I've put into and invested into this relationship to the point where I actually thought I would end up marrying this man one day, (2) I am scared of heartbreak as this is my first relationship (we've been dating for a little over a year now) and this is a really stressful time for me as I am writing entrance exams, doing a full course load, and applying to grad school while managing my start-up and I don't have time nor room to have a bad day and mess up my future; (3) My mind keeps thinking of his good qualities even though they don't make up for the bad ones; (4) Scared I won't find someone better to match up to my expectations/standards and I'll regret my decision. Again, all insecurities of mine that aren't logically based but still mess with my mental state and courage.
Advice: I don't know whether I should wait a week of complete radio silence to break up to see if he even tries to reach out or just call him to break it off. He's never not talked to me for this long, he usually always reaches out one way or another. I also don't know the best way to break up as I've never done it before and I'm literally terrified. I feel like if I break-up with him I'll grow to regret my decision for some reason. Please help.
In the Past: As I've been doing a lot of introspective thinking, I just to give you more context on this guy (my bf) but feel free to skip this part if you don't like reading. When we first started dating, he had recently gotten out of a long-term relationship (broke up with her over the phone) and dated me 1 and a half month after that break-up. I was apprehensive about that at first, but he assured me that he was completely over her and wanted to move forward with me seriously. I believed him and we started dating. During the first 6 months, I was in a very bad position in all areas of my life (2019 wasn't good to me) in terms of physical, emotional, and mental health and I feel that I was highly dependent on him to make me feel better or deal with my anxiety attacks. Early on, he would cuss me out if he got mad at me and this would sky rocket my anxiety and put me at an all-time low where I wouldn't move from my bed for days. I told him that if we were to be together, he could not verbally abuse me by calling me those names and after a couple of months he refrained but he would continuously remind me how much he was doing for me as he always cussed at his ex and never stopped. And how I should be grateful. He eventually resorted to using words like "idiot" and "moron" and "stupid" and when I told him I didn't appreciate that because those were still forms of verbal abuse, he said "that's just how I express my feelings so either you deal with it or leave." In the state that I was back then when I was so dependent on him, I didn't want to leave so I compromised and overlooked his shortcomings for the overall big picture and how "he was responsible," "he cared to call me every night," "he helped me get back on track with school and work."
He's also yelled at me in public on two separate outings. One time was where he was picking me up from work and closing up took longer than anticipated due to some last-min customers and he had to wait in the hot sun for 15 mins. He yelled at me in front of my then-manager. The second time was during our date when I made him walk too far for food as "now we're running out of time and it's all because of you."
He's also thrown multiple ultimatums at me to scare me into listening to him where he tells me "listen to me or this happens" "pick up my call right now or this happens." He's called me "crazy" and "extra" for getting annoyed at the way he treated me and sees no issue in being the way he is. He has acknowledged that he is rude and can be condescending but apparently "you either accept me the way I am or you leave." I have tried to change his habits numerous times and it always comes down to me not accepting him the way he is. Moreover, I don't think he's ever given me a sincere apology, and it's always me who compromises and apologizes after a fight where I was disrespected. The times where he has apologized, he will say something like "I'm sorry for making you late but it's also your fault for taking this long to get ready, or there was so much traffic and you didn't know the directions." He always turns it around on me.
TDLR; Boyfriend disrespected me by yelling in my face and saying I am "incompetent and stupid" as well as "you can only talk when I give you permission to talk" and when I got mad proceeded to tell me that it was MY mistake and I needed to apologize to him. We haven't talked for the past 48 hrs and he has not once reached out to apologize. I am contemplating breaking up with him but am scared I'll grow to regret it. I am also confused on whether I should wait a week to see if he calls/msgs to apologize or do it right away.
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2020.10.19 07:43 lawyered-up5 My boyfriend (22M) thinks it's okay to openly disrespect me (21F) time and time again.

The Situation: 2 nights ago, while me and my bf were on a Facetime call, he asked me to search the web for something and when I told him that I do not have access into the file he was asking me to search for, he got very angry. He started raising his voice at me, and yelling, saying "If I find it, I'm going to be so pissed." Basically he was trying to say 'you better watch out.' During high-pressure situations I often get stressed (he knows I deal with anxiety) so I decided to look one more time to confirm what I already knew - that I did not have access to the file he was requesting me to find. I told him yet AGAIN that there is not possible way for him to find it either as the application does not allow you. In his mind, apparently I didn't understand and I was "being stupid" so he started going off on a tangent to lecture/yell at me. I didn't appreciate his tone and the fact that he was talking down to me so I interrupted him to tell him to watch his tongue. Instead, he got more mad and said "Interrupt me again and watch me cancel your shoot tomorrow" (I was having a photoshoot at his private property the next day) and then proceeded to say "I need you to apologize for interrupting me right now." I was hesitant at first but I ended up apologizing because I didn't want to escalate the situation. Mind you, he made me apologize 4-5 times because apparently it wasn't "genuine." However, after that he wanted me to apologize for being "too incompetent and stupid to understand him" and that's where I drew the line and got upset. I interrupted him again and told him that he can not talk down to me like that, and this led to him yelling in my face saying "You can talk when I give you permission to talk." And that's where I lost it and started yelling back and cut the call on his face. He tried to call me but I didn't pick up his calls and messaged him saying "I can't believe you think it's okay to talk to me like that." Instead of apologizing and recognizing his mistake, he actually told me "not to bother coming tomorrow" and that he was "cancelling my shoot." Now this is a shoot for my upcoming company that I'm super passionate about and he knows how much it means to me. For him to use that against me baffles me to my core.
Post-fight: Anyways, fast forward to the next day, he had talked to my friend who is also starting the company with me and decided to let us shoot on location. He messaged me the next morning gas-lighting me and saying "I can't believe you didn't reach out to me or check up on me. You obviously don't care about my happiness. You ruined today." I didn't respond. I went on-site to shoot and we didn't talk the whole day even though we were in each other's presence. He messaged me saying "When you get home today, don't reach out." And I haven't messaged/called him since. It's now been 48 hours with no apology. In fact, he believes that he is the one who deserves an apology, and that I "wronged him." In the past 2 days where there has been complete radio silence from him, I have been contemplating breaking up with him. For me, if my S/O doesn't have respect for me, then there is no relationship. The only thing stopping me is: (1) The time I've put into and invested into this relationship to the point where I actually thought I would end up marrying this man one day, (2) I am scared of heartbreak as this is my first relationship (we've been dating for a little over a year now) and this is a really stressful time for me as I am writing entrance exams, doing a full course load, and applying to grad school while managing my start-up and I don't have time nor room to have a bad day and mess up my future; (3) My mind keeps thinking of his good qualities even though they don't make up for the bad ones; (4) Scared I won't find someone better to match up to my expectations/standards and I'll regret my decision. Again, all insecurities of mine that aren't logically based but still mess with my mental state and courage.
Advice: I don't know whether I should wait a week of complete radio silence to break up to see if he even tries to reach out or just call him to break it off. He's never not talked to me for this long, he usually always reaches out one way or another. I also don't know the best way to break up as I've never done it before and I'm literally terrified. I feel like if I break-up with him I'll grow to regret my decision for some reason. Please help.
In the Past: As I've been doing a lot of introspective thinking, I just to give you more context on this guy (my bf) but feel free to skip this part if you don't like reading. When we first started dating, he had recently gotten out of a long-term relationship (broke up with her over the phone) and dated me 1 and a half month after that break-up. I was apprehensive about that at first, but he assured me that he was completely over her and wanted to move forward with me seriously. I believed him and we started dating. During the first 6 months, I was in a very bad position in all areas of my life (2019 wasn't good to me) in terms of physical, emotional, and mental health and I feel that I was highly dependent on him to make me feel better or deal with my anxiety attacks. Early on, he would cuss me out if he got mad at me and this would sky rocket my anxiety and put me at an all-time low where I wouldn't move from my bed for days. I told him that if we were to be together, he could not verbally abuse me by calling me those names and after a couple of months he refrained but he would continuously remind me how much he was doing for me as he always cussed at his ex and never stopped. And how I should be grateful. He eventually resorted to using words like "idiot" and "moron" and "stupid" and when I told him I didn't appreciate that because those were still forms of verbal abuse, he said "that's just how I express my feelings so either you deal with it or leave." In the state that I was back then when I was so dependent on him, I didn't want to leave so I compromised and overlooked his shortcomings for the overall big picture and how "he was responsible," "he cared to call me every night," "he helped me get back on track with school and work."
He's also yelled at me in public on two separate outings. One time was where he was picking me up from work and closing up took longer than anticipated due to some last-min customers and he had to wait in the hot sun for 15 mins. He yelled at me in front of my then-manager. The second time was during our date when I made him walk too far for food as "now we're running out of time and it's all because of you."
He's also thrown multiple ultimatums at me to scare me into listening to him where he tells me "listen to me or this happens" "pick up my call right now or this happens." He's called me "crazy" and "extra" for getting annoyed at the way he treated me and sees no issue in being the way he is. He has acknowledged that he is rude and can be condescending but apparently "you either accept me the way I am or you leave." I have tried to change his habits numerous times and it always comes down to me not accepting him the way he is. Moreover, I don't think he's ever given me a sincere apology, and it's always me who compromises and apologizes after a fight where I was disrespected. The times where he has apologized, he will say something like "I'm sorry for making you late but it's also your fault for taking this long to get ready, or there was so much traffic and you didn't know the directions." He always turns it around on me.
TDLR; Boyfriend disrespected me by yelling in my face and saying I am "incompetent and stupid" as well as "you can only talk when I give you permission to talk" and when I got mad proceeded to tell me that it was MY mistake and I needed to apologize to him. We haven't talked for the past 48 hrs and he has not once reached out to apologize. I am contemplating breaking up with him but am scared I'll grow to regret it. I am also confused on whether I should wait a week to see if he calls/msgs to apologize or do it right away.
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2020.10.19 07:34 lawyered-up5 My boyfriend (22M) thinks it's okay to openly disrespect me (21F) time and time again.

The Situation: 2 nights ago, while me and my bf were on a Facetime call, he asked me to search the web for something and when I told him that I do not have access into the file he was asking me to search for, he got very angry. He started raising his voice at me, and yelling, saying "If I find it, I'm going to be so pissed." Basically he was trying to say 'you better watch out.' During high-pressure situations I often get stressed (he knows I deal with anxiety) so I decided to look one more time to confirm what I already knew - that I did not have access to the file he was requesting me to find. I told him yet AGAIN that there is not possible way for him to find it either as the application does not allow you. In his mind, apparently I didn't understand and I was "being stupid" so he started going off on a tangent to lecture/yell at me. I didn't appreciate his tone and the fact that he was talking down to me so I interrupted him to tell him to watch his tongue. Instead, he got more mad and said "Interrupt me again and watch me cancel your shoot tomorrow" (I was having a photoshoot at his private property the next day) and then proceeded to say "I need you to apologize for interrupting me right now." I was hesitant at first but I ended up apologizing because I didn't want to escalate the situation. Mind you, he made me apologize 4-5 times because apparently it wasn't "genuine." However, after that he wanted me to apologize for being "too incompetent and stupid to understand him" and that's where I drew the line and got upset. I interrupted him again and told him that he can not talk down to me like that, and this led to him yelling in my face saying "You can talk when I give you permission to talk." And that's where I lost it and started yelling back and cut the call on his face. He tried to call me but I didn't pick up his calls and messaged him saying "I can't believe you think it's okay to talk to me like that." Instead of apologizing and recognizing his mistake, he actually told me "not to bother coming tomorrow" and that he was "cancelling my shoot." Now this is a shoot for my upcoming company that I'm super passionate about and he knows how much it means to me. For him to use that against me baffles me to my core.
Post-fight: Anyways, fast forward to the next day, he had talked to my friend who is also starting the company with me and decided to let us shoot on location. He messaged me the next morning gas-lighting me and saying "I can't believe you didn't reach out to me or check up on me. You obviously don't care about my happiness. You ruined today." I didn't respond. I went on-site to shoot and we didn't talk the whole day even though we were in each other's presence. He messaged me saying "When you get home today, don't reach out." And I haven't since and it's been 48 hours with no apology. In fact, he believes that he is the one who deserves an apology, and that I "wronged him." In the past 2 days where there has been complete radio silence from him, I have been contemplating breaking up with him. For me, if my S/O doesn't have respect for me, then there is no relationship. The only thing stopping me is (1) The time I've put into and invested into this relationship to the point where I actually thought I would end up marrying this man one day, (2) I am scared of heartbreak as this is my first relationship (we've been dating for a little over a year now) and this is a really stressful time for me as I am writing entrance exams, doing a full course load, and applying to grad school while managing my start-up and I don't have time nor room to have a bad day and mess up my future; (3) My mind keeps thinking of his good qualities even though they don't make up for the bad ones; (4) Scared I won't find someone better to match up to my expectations/standards and I'll regret my decision. Again, all insecurities of mine that aren't logically based but still mess with my mental state and courage to tell him that it's now over.
Advice: I don't know whether I should wait a week of complete radio silence to break up to see if he even tries to reach out or just call him to break it off. He's never not talked to me for this long, he usually always reaches out one way or another. I also don't know the best way to break up as I've never done it before and I'm literally terrified. Please help.
In the Past: As I've been doing a lot of introspective thinking, I just to give you more context on this guy (my bf) but feel free to skip this part if you don't like reading. When we first started dating, he had recently gotten out of a long-term relationship (broke up with her over the phone) and dated me 1 and a half month after that break-up. I was apprehensive about that at first, but he assured me that he was completely over her and wanted to move forward with me seriously. I believed him and we started dating. During the first 6 months, I was in a very bad position in all areas of my life (2019 wasn't good to me) in terms of physical, emotional, and mental health and I feel that I was highly dependent on him to make me feel better or deal with my anxiety attacks. Early on, he would cuss me out if he got mad at me and this would sky rocket my anxiety and put me at an all-time low where I wouldn't move from my bed for days. I told him that if we were to be together, he could not verbally abuse me by calling me those names and after a couple of months he refrained but he would continuously remind me how much he was doing for me as he always cussed at his ex and never stopped. And how I should be grateful. He eventually resorted to using words like "idiot" and "moron" and "stupid" and when I told him I didn't appreciate that because those were still forms of verbal abuse, he said "that's just how I express my feelings so either you deal with it or leave." In the state that I was back then when I was so dependent on him, I didn't want to leave so I compromised and overlooked his shortcomings for the overall big picture and how "he was responsible," "he cared to call me every night," "he helped me get back on track with school and work."
He's also yelled at me in public on two separate outings. One time was where he was picking me up from work and closing up took longer than anticipated due to some last-min customers and he had to wait in the hot sun for 15 mins. He yelled at me in front of my then-manager. The second time was during our date when I made him walk too far for food as "now we're running out of time and it's all because of you."
He's also thrown multiple ultimatums at me to scare me into listening to him where he tells me "listen to me or this happens" "pick up my call right now or this happens." He's called me "crazy" and "extra" for getting annoyed at the way he treated me and sees no issue in being the way he is. He has acknowledged that he is rude and can be condescending but apparently "you either accept me the way I am or you leave." I have tried to change his habits numerous times and it always comes down to me not accepting him the way he is. Moreover, I don't think he's ever given me a sincere apology, and it's always me who compromises and apologizes after a fight where I was disrespected. The times where he has apologized, he will say something like "I'm sorry for making you late but it's also your fault for taking this long to get ready, or there was so much traffic and you didn't know the directions." He always turns it around on me.

TDLR; Boyfriend disrespected me by yelling in my face and saying I am "incompetent and stupid" as well as "you can only talk when I give you permission to talk" and when I got mad proceeded to tell me that it was MY mistake and I needed to apologize to him. We haven't talked for the past 48 hrs and he has not once reached out to apologize. I am contemplating breaking up with him but am scared I'll grow to regret it. I am also confused on whether I should wait a week to see if he calls/msgs to apologize or do it right away.
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2020.10.18 18:39 lalaIamin1020 Anyone tried rescheduling at home test to an in person testing site?

I signed up for GRE at home and registered via ProctorU for a date for early November. I honestly prefer in-person. Now, I realized there are in person testing sites in GA and wonder if anyone has tried to reschedule their GRE date to in person?
Thanks in advance!
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2020.10.16 14:29 productism Daily Roundup Fri, October 16th, 2020

Daily update ⋅ October 16, 2020
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2020.10.15 21:11 bios444 Eyes Dating Site

According to the researchers, staring into someone's eyes can make you fall in love!
We created a dating site for eyes.
No faces, no bodies, no bla bla bla profile texts.
http://absurd.website/eyes-dating-site
https://preview.redd.it/evbwqggd5bt51.png?width=450&format=png&auto=webp&s=472575f048b0efe4e82a785868a2ebfa2189e959
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2020.10.15 21:10 bios444 Eyes Dating Site - Absurd #005

Eyes Dating Site - Absurd #005
According to the researchers, staring into someone's eyes can make you fall in love!
We created a dating site for eyes.
No faces, no bodies, no bla bla bla profile texts.
http://absurd.website/eyes-dating-site
Absurd #005.
https://preview.redd.it/8chcd2x45bt51.png?width=450&format=png&auto=webp&s=dfcdccdc0a03955b079e847df9d45685f683762f
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2020.10.15 21:08 bios444 Eyes Dating Site - Absurd #005

Eyes Dating Site - Absurd #005
According to the researchers, staring into someone's eyes can make you fall in love!
We created a dating site for eyes.
No faces, no bodies, no bla bla bla profile texts.
http://absurd.website/eyes-dating-site
https://preview.redd.it/r93020el4bt51.png?width=450&format=png&auto=webp&s=62f87eac383dc05dcaccc68cdd989aea6c08dc13
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2020.10.15 00:00 millywyco MW Wyco Wednesday Inventory Update! First 20 Orders Get an Unlisted Syringe with Order! Orders Ending in 04 Doubled or Free! New Raffle Giveaway! Currently Not Able to Accept Card Payments, but 7 Payment Apps Still Running! Restocked GT, B+, JMF, KSSS, White Teacher, Azurescens NEW: Dancing Tiger

www.millywyco.com Stickers=12mL Syringes
MillyWyco is NOT Willy Myco :) (see below)
Any mention of cultivation or anything unrelated to microscopy will not receive a response and orders will be cancelled. This includes DM's, PM's, e-mails, notes with your transaction, feedback of any kind, and thoughts. Don't even think about it! (I'm a mind reader)
Hey there myco buddies! I made a post this morning about having issues with accepting card payments on the website, and have a new update. Apparently, Wix is not too supportive of my "high risk" venture here, even while using the term "stickers" on product details. I can no longer process card payments through Wix itself, but will have a new payment system that can take card payments soon. For the time being, please choose "manual payment" at checkout to get instructions on how to pay with Cash App, Venmo, Apple Pay, Google Pay, Zelle, Bitcoin, or Amazon gift cards. Sorry for the super short notice, and I hope this isn't too much of an inconvenience. It just so happened to come at me on a Wednesday of all days!
I have a pretty fun raffle/contest/giveaway thingy new this week, thanks to a very good friend, long-time supporter, and valiant mod, u/Myceliasaurus! He gave me this idea a few months ago, and I've been excited for it ever since, but never carved out time to put it into action. I'll briefly explain the basics of the raffle here, but will post a picture and more details in a separate post this evening.
Calendars will be available for $10, and act as your entry into the prize pool. Each calendar will have 31 spaces with a different prize for each day. Prizes include a dehydrator, 10-pack of cubensis syringes, gift cards to the MW shop and Paul Stamets shop, pressure cookers, Milly's Myco Box subscription memberships, microscopes, tapestries, and tons more! Each calendar will be assigned a number from 000-999, and the winning number will correspond with the 10PM drawing of the Texas Pick-3 Lottery. For instance, if you have calendar number 123, and the 10PM pick-3 drawing tonight is 123, you win the prize shown on the 14th day of the calendar (for October 14th). You may request your own 3 digit number (as long as it isn't already taken), or be assigned one at random. You may purchase multiple calendars. This gives you a chance to win every day, with a Milly lottery of sorts! Check back on the MW sub for a picture and details ;)
Also, when I say "Priority Mail", this is referring to USPS Priority Mail vs. the standard "First Class" mail. All of my orders get my absolute highest priority care and attention, regardless of shipping method. USPS Priority Mail costs me $8, while I only pass on $5 of that to your order...it does not benefit me in any way if you choose this option, I just know those orders need to get to you ASAP, so I make sure to get all of these out on Thursday, with as many standard shipping orders as well. Sometimes it is not humanly possible to get every order from Wednesday out on Thursday, and some ship Friday morning. Thank you for your patience and continued support!!
The first 20 orders placed after this post (Order #14625-14644) will receive a free UNLISTED variety with their order!
ALSO...in addition to the first 20 promo, any order number ending in 1, 0 or 4 on 10/14 only will also get a free unlisted variety! If you are in the first 20, and your order number ends in 1, 0, or 4, you get both!
If your order number ends in 04 (#14704, 14804, etc.) the week of 10/14 only, I will be in contact to arrange your special gift. Either you can have a double order (you ordered 5, I'll ask which other 5 you'd like...if you ordered 10, you'll get 20, etc), or you can choose to make that order free, (refunded if already paid) totally up to you!
This week, I have restocked a few favorites, including Golden Teacher, B+, PE6, Tasmanian, Albino A+, KSSS, Blue Meanie, NorMel, White Teacher, Jedi Mind Fuck, Rusty Whyte, Ps. Allenii, Ps. Azurescens and a few others!
The only new variety this week is a variant of Orissa India and one I had in very limited supply a few months ago, Dancing Tiger! I have several new varieties undergoing quality testing now, and should be ready by the end of the month!
Thank you so much to everyone who has subscribed to a subscription box! Each and every month, these boxes will get better and better :) Newsletters will go out on the first of each month, regardless of when your plan is set to renew. In these newsletters will also be the winner of the random equipment raffle for MASTER PLAN members! This could be a sterilization wand, dehydrator, magnetic stir plate, or other super duper helpful tools in the hobby. Last month, 3 lucky Master Box subscribers received a pressure cooker, UV-C light sterilization wand, and a dehydrator!
PLEASE USE COUPON CODES if ordering on the site for discounts!! Please see below:
2PACK - $20 for two cubensis syringes
5PACK - Classic and most popular $30 dealio for 5 cubensis varieties. Also works in multiples of 5 as well, so if you need 15 syringes, this code will be good for 3- 5 packs, and you only need to place one order.
NEEDMORE - 5 cubensis varieties for $30 plus 1 exotic add-on for $10...total $40
NEEDMORE2 - 5 cubensis varieties for $30 plus 2 exotic add-ons for $20...total $50
NEEDMORE3 - 5 cubensis varieties for $30 plus 3 exotic add-ons for $30...total $60
...and so on. Currently, this is setup for up to 5 exotic add-ons. If you have an order that does not meet these codes, such as adding on more than 5 exotics, getting 7 cubensis varieties, etc. please send me a message and I will build you a coupon code to match your order in a timely manner.
Shipping not available to ID, GA, or CA (yes, really)
Spore syringes are for microscopy use only
Any reference to cultivation will exclude you from placing an order and we may never speak again. I want to talk to you. Don't do it!
There are no exceptions to these rules. You have been warned.
PAYMENT METHODS ACCEPTED: Major Credit/Debit cards, Zelle, Cash App, Venmo, Google Pay, Apple Pay, Bitcoin and Amazon gift cards
PayPal is NOT available to me at this time.
Also, I am the fee master! I get charged fees left and right that I don't pass on to you from shipping and third party payments. If you'd like to throw me a tip, however much it may be, I'd love you forever and it really does make a difference! These types of people have allowed me to share with some who are less fortunate. On the other hand, if times are tough for you right now, let's talk about it!
ALL PRICES INCLUDE USPS SHIPPING WITH TRACKING!! I COVER ALL STANDARD SHIPPING COSTS.
Please add an additional $5 to any order if you prefer USPS Priority Mail shipping.
1 syringe for $15
2 syringes for $20
5 syringes for $30
Golden Teacher (LIMITED TO 2 PER ORDER!)
Acadian Coast
Ajax
Alacabenzi
Albino A+
Amazonian
B+ (Be Positive)
Blue Meanie
Burma
Columbian Rust
Corumba Brazil
Costa Rican
Daddy Long Legs
Dancing Tiger
Ecuadorian
Fiji
Golden Mammoth
Golden Teacher
Huautla
Jedi Mind Fuck
Koh Samui Super Strain (KSSS)
Lake Toba (Sumatra, Indonesia)
Lizard King
Mazatapec
McKennaii
Mexican
NorMel
PES Amazon
PES Hawaiian
Rusty Whyte
Taman Negara
Tasmanian
White Teacher
Wollongong
Z-Strain
THE FOLLOWING EXOTICS ARE NOT PART OF THE 5/$30 MIX-n-MATCH DEALIO, but can be added to the 5/$30 pack for $10 as an add-on, or $15 each by themselves. These are NOT cubensis, and NOT recommended for beginners. USE COUPON CODE "NEEDMORE" on the site to add ONE EXOTIC on to a 5 pack. Want 2 Exotics? Use code NEEDMORE2 or NEEDMORE3 for 3, etc. Currently this is setup to add a maximum of 5 exotics....if you need more, please message me and I'll create a unique coupon code to enter for your order :)
****Penis Envy #6 (PE6)***\*
This actually IS a cubensis variety, but added to exotics list due to rarity and popularity. NOT part of the pick 5.
****Psilocybe Allenii***\*
****Psilocybe Azurescens***\*
****Psilocybe Cyanescens***\*
****Psilocybe Mexicana Galindoi***\*
****Psilocybe Ovoideocystidiata***\*
****Psilocybe Serbica***\*
****Psilocybe Subaeruginosa***\*
****Panaeolus Bisporus***\*
****Panaeolus Cyanescens (Australia)***\*
All syringes are 12cc/mL and come capped with a sterile tip cap, and also include an 18ga 1.5" sterile needle and alcohol pads. Syringes are made in a lab grade environment and the utmost care and attention is the highest priority to be sure they are sterile. Anything exposed to an open air environment is subject to contamination, but I take every precaution possible to minimize this risk. I cannot "guarantee" they are 100% sterile, but I can guarantee that if you have an issue, I will make it right. I really do love to help, and if something happens, I'd like to know about it so I can fix the issue instead of you getting frustrated or giving up!
To ensure equal quantity of spores in each syringe, and for adequate suspension of the spores in the solution, I use a magnetic stir plate. Very often, this does such a good job of breaking up clumps of spores that it will appear to be sparse. THIS IS NOT AN ISSUE! There are still a TON of spores in each syringe, even if you can't see them individually (though most of my syringes appear to have a very good amount of visible spores...even with my horrible eyesight!). You can compare and contrast to see the blackish/purple tint to ensure every syringe is packed with spores. If a spore clump forms during transportation, simply give it a good flick with your finger and vigorously shake to break it up or free it from clinging to the wall of the syringe before examining.
Syringes ship in individual bags clearly labeled as to specific variety and born on date, bubble wrapped and shipped through USPS tracked shipping (discreet) within 24 hours of payment. I send tracking info soon after payment and give updates along the (super quick) way.
Any messages referring to spores being used for anything other than microscopy use will be ignored. Don't do it.
THANK YOU ALL so much again for your continued support!! I appreciate it more than you know! MUSH LOVE
P.S. In no way am I trying to be an impostor. I AM NOT WILLY MYCO. I chose this u/ a while back as sort of a play on words and tribute to a legend most of us recognize, long before I became a spore vendor. I don't want anyone to think I am trying to pass off as him, though I do admire his dedication to the craft! I appreciate all of the kind words, though, from people saying they learned from "my" videos. I wish I could pass on those notes to Willy himself.
Cheers and MUSH LOVE!
MW
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2020.10.14 23:52 CLucas127 Should I upgrade my parts or build a new rig?

Please see below the template for my goals and questions.

--------------------------BUDGET--------------------------------------------
[~$1000-1500] My budget. Ideally I will pay less, and sell back some parts or my current rig to mitigate some of the expense, but I know I may need to pay more to meet my goals.
Date I will buy: Flexible. Depends if I should upgrade over time.
[X] I'm OK with rebates to get to my target price recognizing I will pay more upfront.
What country are you buying in? [US]
---------------------------USAGE--------------------------------------------
List programs and indicate distribution with percentages: xx%
[X] Gaming
[X] Virtual Reality (Oculus Quest 2)
[X] Plex Server
[X] Nvidia GameStream to Shield TV
--------------------------MONITORS---------------------------------------
[X] 4K 60Hz - Already own
--------------------------OVERCLOCKING---------------------------------
[X] I am willing to overclock my CPU/RAM, but don't know much about it.
--------------------------ENVIRONMENT-----------------------------------
What environment do you expect the Computer to live in?
[X] Dusty/Pets
[X] Always on
--------------------------PERIPHERALS------------------------------------
I have:
[X] Mouse
[X] Keyboard
[X] Headphones/speakers
[X] Monitor
--------------------------OPERATING SYSTEM-----------------------------
[X] Have Windows, may need another copy if I build from scratch.
---------------------------INTERNET---------------------------------------
[X ] I can connect to this computer with ethernet.
---------------------------OP's PARTS-------------------------------------
Type Item
CPU Intel Core i5-4440 3.1GHz Quad-Core Processor
CPU Cooloer CRYORIG H7 49.0 CFM CPU Cooler
Motherboard Gigabyte GA-B85M-DS3H Micro ATX LGA1150 Motherboard
Memory Team Elite Plus 8GB (1 x 8GB) DDR3-1600 Memory
Memory Mushkin - Silverline 8 GB (1 x 8 GB) DDR3-1600 Memory
Storage Crucial MX100 128GB 2.5" Solid State Drive
Storage 2 x Seagate Barracuda 1TB 3.5" 7200RPM Internal Hard Drive
Video Card Asus - GeForce GTX 1070 8 GB Dual Series Video Card
Case Azza SIRIUS ATX Mid Tower Case
Power Supply SeaSonic - S12II 520 W 80+ Bronze Certified ATX Power Supply
I currently have a solid gaming rig that I've upgraded a few times over the past several years, but I think I'm ready for the next step. I just picked up the Oculus Quest 2 and it's great, but I think my PC is preventing it from thriving. I'm also in a better financial position to invest in the next few years, so I'd really like to make my PC as future-proof as possible.
My goal is run games at Max settings in 4K @ 60. I'm interested in the 3080s, and definitely need an Nvidia card because I have an Nvidia Shield TV that I use with GameStream. I know the 3080s are in short supply at the moment, but I can wait if needed.

Needs/Goals:
Questions:
  1. I know AMD just announced new CPUs, and heard that Intel may do so in a few months, should I consider waiting for this before upgrading my CPU?
  2. I also heard DDR5 RAM could be coming out next year. Is it worth waiting for this?
  3. What's the story with the 12-pin connector on the 3080? Just trying to ensure I'm future-proof.
  4. NVME SSDs - do most motherboards have slots to keep adding more of these? My PSU seems to have hit its limit for the number of HDD/SDDs it can support. If I choose to sell my whole rig I can hold on to some or none of these and opt for all NVME if that's desirable.
  5. Upgrading vs. Building a new rig: Will it be easiemore profitable for me to sell my existing rig as a whole, or will I do just as well selling individual parts if I choose to upgrade my parts incrementally?
Thank you for taking the time to read and consider my post :)
Despite how thorough I was, I don't actually know a ton about building PCs and I may still need some ELI5...
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